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He only said he was flattered.

If he felt the same way as I do, surely he would say so and then we will have a happily ever after.

But he replied otherwise.

Whatever reason it is, I failed yet again.

It’s ok. I’m strong enough to take it. It is not that painful.

Time to walk away.

Omg I can’t believe this. Being drunk in his kindness, I confessed to him.. he hasn’t replied. I hope he feel the same…

As far as I can tell now, he is my prince. He has all the attributes that I want for my partner.

He is knowledgeable, good looking, caring, has an athletic body..

But as compared to him, I’m so tiny. I’m ignorant, childish, not-so-good looking, silly and skinny..

I’m feeling that I’m not good enough for him. =( He’s just too good for some one like me..

I’m afraid of losing in the game of love.

While I feel the impulse to get closer to him, I try to keep myself down.
Try not to Whatsapp him too much, try not to YM him too much, try not to think about him too much.

I’m afraid to lose – as if I show to him that I need him more than he needs me, I will lose. People usually don’t appreciate things that come easily, so my intuition tells me being far and near (instead of being near all the time) (若即若离) makes him appreciate my presence more.

Another thing is that I’m still not comfortable to be out. I’m not comfortable letting people I know know about my sexuality. He didn’t say anything about his preference. What if I’m wrong? If I take the first move but it turns out he’s not the same as me, then what? I’m in an awkward state. I know the problem is with me, but I’m just not comfortable with it yet…

And tonight seems to be quiet, without him Whatsapping me…

And I think I’m someone who is in extreme insecurity at all time. I think my subconscious mind is already asking me to prepare for lovelorn before the love even starts.

Ah. I’m a really odd one.

Last Friday, I met someone I feel special on. The feeling was growing as we interact more on work. We exchanged our contacts this Friday and more flirting came along in only two days.

I used to be against interracial relationship, at least for myself, because I’m very proud of my Chinese heritage and I’m afraid that my pride towards my heritage would hurt interracial relationships. Now I’ve changed my opinion a little. I think full acceptance is possible when there’s love. I can’t imagine how my life would change if we move on further. All I can think of is that I may have to change my diet. While I don’t think that would be a big problem for me, things may be different from what people imagine.

I have been thinking, are we progressing too fast? I’m worried that this comes fast and goes equally as fast.

Being very inexperienced in love, maybe I’m just desperate, or maybe it’s just lust. But in any case, I think I’m going to give it a try, if it develops further.

I know the fact that those that are kind to me will encourage me in doing anything, but only those who concerns about me would tell me about the reality and make me facce it. I also know that in this world full of betrayal, my family are the only ones that will never betray me.

So I’m heeding their advice although I was very firm to go for mine.

Job hunt is going on!